Our kids grow up so fast... it flys right before our eyes! The time and effort we put in during the early years are so critical it can't be emphasized enough. In the coming months, as we've done in the past... relationship issues, raising our children right, and keeping our families intact will become a constant theme on this website and radio show. Restoring the family, improving our marriages, encouraging young folks to date and have children, and maintain strong family values is vitally important. It has to be a HUGE part of what we do here at PTD. Read about the rest of our values and core principles in the recently Updated About Section!
Here’s a little sample of something I wrote a few years ago, at another website:
Putting off Marriage and the Modern Man
By the time a young man is either out of college or well into his late 20’s or early 30’s, you would think, or at least assume that at some point, he’d be looking for a stable girlfriend or future wife.
Unfortunately, the modern “man” of today falls rather short in that regard. Instead of finding that special someone and starting a family, many of these perpetual teenagers are still having fantasy’s of reliving dorm-room life, and sport fucking every desperate whore they can get their hands on. How many of them actually live out their fantasies? Very few.
Many of our young men are perfectly content playing video games in moms basement, jerking off to porn, and eating sandwiches all day long. As they continue to just sit back and watch life go bye.
Many of these misguided young men believe that marriage kills your sex life and that you’ll never experience sexual variety again.
First of all, outside of jerking off 3 times a day, most men who aren’t married don’t have sex lives. Let’s get serious here. Don’t act like the pussy patrol is knocking down doors to get their hands on all of these single guys out there, hanging out in mommy’s basement. We all know they’re not! So that argument doesn’t hold up.
The brutal truth is that Millennial idiots, these emasculated pathetic panty-waste losers all parrot the same lines… as they tell each other not to settle down, and that having a wife and children is not desirable. Sure, wait till you’re 40 years old asshole.
Don’t get married now…
If you do, you may regret it.
You never really know your partner, their real inner-self, or innermost thoughts and feelings.
Later down the line, they may change, and you may change. You might grow apart. You might become incompatible.
What if your spouse becomes a monster?
What if you no longer love them?
What if you love someone else?
You can’t know what’s going to happen down the line, so why make unrealistic promises? All of these stupid hypothetical what ifs can apply to anything in life.
Secondly, what kind of idiot jumps into a marriage without knowing the person? Anyone considering a marriage should live with that person for at least a few months before making the next move. Any semi-intelligent, mature person can determine after a few months of dating and living together if a relationship and/or future marriage can work.
The truth is that marriage does make you happy, it gives you a sense of security and accomplishment, and a promise of a future with someone you love and someone you’ll hopefully bring beautiful children into this world with. Putting off marriage is completely idiotic, and not having children at a reasonable age (reproduction) is suicide!
Economic motives and concerns also seem to weigh heavily on the minds of our young men, on whether or not to get married or have kids. People think that it will drain them of their resources and financial security. Really? Try living out on your own as a single bachelor paying for everything on your own. See how well you do. Add up all of your bills and figure out how economically secure you really are by yourself idiot.
The fact is that you’re not. And in this modern society where both genders work, bringing in two incomes into a household makes life much easier and bearable. And when it comes time to have children, you plan for a year and make sacrifices if you have to. You go without vacationing for a few years, you eat at home more frequently, you cut back on buying idiotic/stupid shit you don’t need, you wear the same clothes for a few years, you rely on immediate family, friends, and extended family to help you out (if any of this is necessary). It’s not that hard folks. Start acting like a REAL MAN. Develop Power through Discipline, and let’s start building some strong families out there!